I am often asked why I attend a religious service at least once a week (usually Sundays). Some ask if it is just the requirement of being Catholic. Others wonder if it’s really a good use of time and what do I get out of it?

In my case, I don’t view it as a requirement. I also don’t view it as just a question of what I get out of it. Rather, I think about it as what I’m putting into it. In the crazy world we all live in, I find it remarkably helpful to take a short time out of a busy schedule and ask the questions I think about very often:

  • What are my values?
  • What is my purpose?
  • What really matters?

Regarding the question of whether it’s a good use of time to attend a religious service, I immediately reflect on the simple fact that we all have 168 hours in a week. I remind myself that spending two hours a week on something this important is still only one percent of my time.

It is not clear to me that I can possibly reflect on what is important if I’m spending any less time on it than that.

Yesterday morning’s service was a good example of being exposed to some important wisdom. Our pastor referenced how we sometimes may not receive what we ask for, and yet we receive exactly what we need.

He quoted the words found on the body of a soldier in the American Civil War that has become known as the “prayer of an unknown soldier.”

Prayer of An Unknown Soldier

I asked God for strength that I might achieve
I was made weak, that I might learn humility to obey

I asked for health, that I might do great things
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things

I asked for riches, that I might be happy
I was given poverty, that I might be wise

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things

I got nothing I asked for – but everything I hoped for
Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered

I am among all men, most richly blessed!

After reading this prayer several times, I am now ready for the week! Upward and onward!
Have a great week!