College Reunion Weekend

I had the opportunity this past weekend to attend my Lawrence University college reunion in Appleton, Wisconsin. It was a fantastic opportunity to spend time with classmates and professors that I had not seen in many years. It was a wonderful experience!!!!

One impact of the experience was to cause me to SELF REFLECT (yes, I know you are thinking: “What else is new with Harry?” 😀). But this experience really did cause me to self reflect…..40TH COLLEGE REUNION!!!! How could it possibly be my 40th college reunion if I am only 39 years old????? Hmmmm… I guess graduating from Lawrence in 1977 as well as having a daughter who is almost 30 and a son who was also at Lawrence this weekend celebrating his 5th college reunion may be possible evidence that I am no longer 39 years old…! 💡

Freshman Roommates

I had the opportunity on Friday evening to get together with several of the guys I roomed with on the 4th floor of our Colman Hall dormitory when we were 18-year-old freshman in the Fall of 1973!! Walking by the field where we played touch football 🏈 the day we arrived on campus in September 1973, we found the “field” is now full of 50-foot-tall trees. As we all stared at the “field”, one of my classmates declared, “Well, guys, it was 44 years ago!!” Wow!

While we were having dinner that evening several folks mentioned that they really didn’t feel any different than when they really were 39 years old. Nonetheless, we discussed the importance of being thankful for every day we are given. This thought was reinforced when we attended the reception that evening for our 40th reunion class. At the entrance to the room was a large white board with pictures of 26 classmates (out of our class of 320) who are no longer with us…great people including roommates and teammates whom I hope to meet again at the “end of the story”.

Please don’t think I look at these things in a negative or pessimistic way. I don’t. Rather, it reminds me that we all have limited time to make a difference in the world, so let’s get going!! As I have mentioned in earlier blog posts, we can talk about all of the challenges in the world and assume some magical group of people called “THOSE GUYS” will solve them, or we can realize that WE are “THOSE GUYS”…the men and women who can make a difference.

Okay, one final thought on “self reflection”. A student asked me how one would feel if they were “truly self reflective.” (I love this question!!) I asked him to consider the following: You feel completely healthy, but your doctor walks up to you and informs you that you have three days left to live (and no chance to change the diagnosis). How do you react? Do you go crazy, running around, shocked, surprised 😳😢? Or, in a calm, reflective manner do you realize the obvious, which is: We all eventually have three days left — we just don’t know when that three-day countdown begins. So why wouldn’t we live our lives and treat every person with whom we come in contact as if it really was “our last three days?”😀👍

Well, that’s all for now. Have a great (self reflective) week!! 😀


  • Thanks for sharing Harry! A college reunion presents an ideal opportunity to engage in self-reflection in a different way from the daily practice. I attended mine last summer and had the pleasure of having my young children with me. Sharing memories with them allowed me to reflect on that time with a new perspective. I appreciate your reminder about seizing each and every day, so true! I believe age is a mindset…39 forever!!!


  • Daven Morrison MD

    Very nice Harry. Really glad to see you weren’t “surprised” at it being 40 years! Isn’t it amazing the power of place to take us back to certain times? Wonderful to read this along with you and think about the world and the importance of places like this. Places to grow minds and in particular powers of thinking like self-reflection. Reunions not only help us self-reflect but appreciate our various steps along the way in growing skills at self-reflection. And even more profoundly: “who we are” and “who I am”. Thank you for this note and sharing. And thank you also for your encouragement of liberal arts. So many leaders these days would have been better off taking a history class or literature class than one more accounting or business class. Imagine if the CEO of UBER had and he really worked at it! best, Daven


  • 26 classmates lost–what a waste of human potential! So sorry for these families/friends.


  • Nice self reflection Harry – get a little smarter each and every day and do what you can to help others do the same. Make a difference.


  • Thanks Harry. You made my day!


  • Indeed, I am ‘Those guys’! Thank you Harry!


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